As a Professional Counselor for 20 plus years and as a married woman for almost 20 years, I truly believe it takes more than love to make a marriage work. In fact, by the time couples show up in my office it sometimes seems to be an after thought or something long forgotten. Couples are often so hurt or so entrenched with being right that they have lost the essence of who they are and who their partner is. I believe that we’re designed to see the flaws and shortcomings in our partner more easily than focusing on our own flaws and shortcomings.
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